I have a cousin who works for a computer company. His job is not tiring, and his salary is high. But he's already 30 and still has no girlfriend. Urged by my aunt, I have helped him meet several women, but every time, they would say goodbye after just a few dates. I asked the matchmakers for the reasons, and they said that my cousin is good in all other aspects, but after dating for a while, they felt he was very cold towards people, showing no passion at all.
Just as they said. I found the reason why my cousin is not popular with girls, and it's very simple—it's all the computer's fault. Gates A typical "computer face"
Bill Gates' face is a typical example of a "computer face." Citing people around him, they say his gaze is often vacant, his expression is dull, and he rarely smiles. This is one of the consequences of a long career as a programmer.
Psychological research has found that people who frequently work with computers, due to long hours facing the lifeless computer screen and having less and less human interaction, will unknowingly develop a "computer face" with a dull and cold expression. People who are used to communicating with computers often find it hard to be considerate of others; they either stubbornly insist on their own views or completely abandon them.
However, in social interactions, handling interpersonal relationships is far more complex than communicating with a computer. Even if your point is correct, it won't necessarily be accepted right away. These people have simple ways of thinking and problem-solving, making it difficult to compromise and understand others. In their actual work, they often cannot effectively gather their subordinates' opinions nor coordinate well with other departments. As a result, they hesitate to take action, eventually losing confidence in themselves. Over time, this leads to inner frustration, physical and mental exhaustion, and depression. Cure: Daylily
For my cousin, the therapeutic food I prescribed for him is: Daylily.
Pediatricians have recently discovered a very important connection: the link between laughter and iron.
Research data shows that infants who often smile, have lively eyes, and a bright gaze generally have normal iron stores in their bodies. In contrast, babies with serious, stiff expressions, or those who laugh only once or twice within an hour, may have insufficient iron levels in their blood. It seems that the lack of a smile can serve as an early warning for iron deficiency in our bodies, so we don't have to wait until symptoms of anemia appear to think about supplementing iron.
Everyone knows that spinach is rich in iron, but in fact, the iron content in daylilies is tens of times that in spinach. In ancient times, daylilies were given names like "forget-worry" and "cure-sorrow," which is enough to demonstrate their efficacy.
In Xuzhou, China, there is a traditional dish called "Soft-Fried Daylilies," which is most suitable for "netizens" (internet addicts). This dish uses daylilies as the main ingredient and is named "soft and tender" because it is wrapped in a chicken paste and then deep-fried. In Beijing, there are few authentic Xuzhou restaurants, but this "Soft-Fried Daylilies" dish can generally be found in restaurants that serve southern cuisine. The only drawback is that the daylilies used in these restaurants are not from Xuzhou, so the effect is somewhat diminished.